How to over come shyness while meeting a girl?

Hey, Every time i meet a new girl ( mostly on the internet or outside ) i get shy and barley talk,, i'm mostly quite and feel embarrass to talk. My head get black on what to think.. Any idea on how to overcome this shyness?How to over come shyness while meeting a girl?
yes ask question and comment on statements she makes.





laugh and make her laugh





give it a couple of weeks and it'll be as if you know every girl on this planet. but always be respectful and a gentlemanHow to over come shyness while meeting a girl?
think of her as a potential friend instead of a potential girlfriend
ask God to help you overcome it
With any luck if you're like me you'll reach a day where you stop caring about looking an idiot from that day onwards talking to girls will be a piece of cake
Shyness can be contributed from nervousness. Make sure you feel ok with yourself. Like, make sure you smell and look clean. That's the first step.


The 2nd is to just take a deep breath and act like youre talking to someone you've known for a while. This could take some practice but I'm sure you'll do fine.





Good luck!
In order to find out who you are, you have to release or at least relax the shyness, even if it hurts. On the internet it should be easy, no one can see you and before you send a message you can read it and change it. but give girls credit, we aren't all mean or dingbats, just talk to us, many of us are shy too. all you need is a little encouragement, once you develop and friendship with a girl it will help you to overcome the shyness a little bit...but the first step is to talk to one or more. talk about things that interest you, find out what interest them. Try not to manipulate the conversation, allow her to talk about herself more.
OK, just stop thinking of girls as girls and start thinking of them as people. Smile, be confident, they're not going to judge you, and if they do, then they're not the kind of person you want to be with anyway. Ask them about school, family, interests. Just don't make it a big deal because, really its not. Good luck!
laughter. that's number one, makes both of your relax instead of being all tense during the conversation. Also, don't start off with stories. Don't go like ';haha yeah, oh, one time, I ....blah blah blah.....'; You can do that maybe once or twice IF IT'S INTERESTING!!! Instead talk about her instead (of course complimenting or something that she participates or interested in). Third, BE YOURSELF. You say that your head get black on what to think. Don't over think things, and let the conversation FLOW.





p.s. another tip is, it might sound........weird, but have a few questions at hand when you have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO SAY. Like a simple ';so...how's your day so far?'; or ';busy on schoolwork lately?'; something general to ask in that effect. Hope this helps you man :D
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